5/25 Kelly Loves Tony Video Question Response

5/25 Angel Truong Kelly Loves Tony Video Question Response

               In the documentary, Kelly Loves Tony, multiplicity and positionalities of power are negotiated between social aspects such as gender, culture, and education which contribute to the conflicts that arises in the couple’s lives. The positionalities of power are negotiated because Kelly must conform to her in-laws’ expectations that involve female traditional roles like being a domestic wife and obedient daughter-in-law. Her position creates problems that multiply to cooking for her family, being reserved, and caring for her baby. This multiplicity of expectations put onto female Asian Americans forces Kelly to negotiate or balance her school work and domestic duties and for her, that is impossible. As an Asian American, Kelly strives for personal achievement such as higher education which is hindered by Tony’s cultural expectations and social roles.  As a male Asian American, Tony’s position places him in a higher gender hierarchy that is highlighted in his culture. Tony is expected to work and provide for his family so education and domestic work are not his problem. However, his position creates issues since he does not understand why Kelly would want to strive for education when she is expected to take care their baby and his family. Therefore, the varieties of problems Kelly needs to deal with and Tony’s lack of understanding creates conflict between the couple which eventually leads to their breakup.  

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